I post in the section for new proposed voting systems and variants and no one responds, neither with support, nor opposition, nor expressions that my post is confusing or ambiguous. I suspect that the reason for this is that the software is not notifying them.
I only see one recent post by you there. Maybe because the forum has low traffic?
Also, that post doesn't seem like it is serious. I don't think that is inviting to people wanting a substantive discussion.
Currently, the arrangements for my death estate are nowhere near properly set up
No pun intended, but involving estates and such seems like overkill.
There are so many simpler ways to do things. If this forum had 100,000 users, it might be different. If you died and no one had access to your account and you hadn't given out a contact of your next of kin, you know what would happen? We'd just stop using the forum. It isn't the end of the world.
It could be as simple as getting new free email and godaddy accounts that you share the password with another person, and just sign an agreement with them that neither can change the password without agreement from the other (unless the other dies or doesn't respond for a long time).
The only reason a lawyer is needed is if anyone contests it.... but who is going to do that? Nobody cares that much about this forum.
Seriously, you are making things WAY to complicated. This sort of thing is done all the time.